Finally,
someone who
wants every detail.
Tell Bondary what's happening with the person you're seeing. She's on your side, remembers all of it, and gives you an honest read, even when it's not what you hoped.
For iPhone. First month half price, cancel anytime.
For iPhone. Coming to the App Store. First month half price.
You're on the list. One email, the day it's live.
- You've told the story to three friends and gotten three different answers.
- The Notes entry from March that you never went back and read.
- The screenshot the group chat dissected for an hour, then forgot.
How it works
Three things she does, every time.
Tell her what happened.
Type it, dictate it, or drop in a screenshot. She answers on the spot, right there in the thread, and files the entry on the day it happened, even if that was last month.
She keeps the whole story.
Every date, every text, every shift in tone, on a timeline in the order it happened. Seeing more than one person? Each one has his own profile, so nothing blurs together.
Every entry gets a read.
Each one comes back as a recap card: what he did, how you framed it, and the gap between the two. Then the Weekly Pulse puts the week together, and once a month she zooms out.
What she notices
Four dimensions she reads. The patterns she flags.
The questions she asks are the ones you'd ask a friend who was paying attention.
Chemistry
The click. Physical, intellectual, and how easy the quiet moments feel.
Connection
What he shares, what he asks about you, and how he handles your boundaries.
Compatibility
What he values, how he takes your opinions, and how safe you feel around him.
Commitment
What he says he'll do, and what he actually does after.
The patterns she watches for. When one shows up, she names it and shows you the entries it came from.
He said he'd text the recipe on Sunday. It came Wednesday with a quick "sorry, busy week."What happened. Actions and quotes, as you logged them.
Not a big deal, but I noticed.How you framed it. She reads both, and tells you when they drift apart.
Pulse
A weekly read on where things actually stand.
His Interest tracks how much he's pursuing you. The Vetting Score tracks whether he's earning it.
- She explains what moved each score this week, grounded in the specific things you logged.
- When the read is low, she suggests one small thing to try. Never "you should leave."
- Every read can be challenged. Tell her what she got wrong and she'll weigh it against the evidence.
- Every month she zooms out: the pattern that kept coming back gets a name, and next month gets a plan.
She watches you too
The patterns that are yours.
Across everyone you've written about, she notices what keeps following you from person to person.
- Your archetype and attachment style, read from how you actually behave, not a quiz.
- What you're drawn to, and whether it's been good for you.
- The moments you set a boundary or named a pattern yourself. She remembers those too.
Privacy
Built for the things you'd only tell one friend.
Every claim below is checked against how the app is actually built.
Only you can read your entries
Every record is locked to your account with row-level security. There are no shared or public tables, and the AI key never ships in the app.
Your words never train AI
Analysis runs on a paid API that does not use your prompts to train models. Bondary doesn't train anything on your entries either.
Take everything with you
One tap in Settings exports all of your data.
Delete means delete
"Delete All Data" wipes your records immediately. Deleting your account purges them after a short grace period.
No selling, no shadow profiles
Your data is never sold, and Bondary never contacts or builds profiles of the people you write about.
Analytics are optional
Screen and feature usage, never your entry text, and you can switch it off in Privacy.
Pricing
Two plans. Same features on both.
Pro just gives you more room.
Lite
Pro
First month half price: $4.99 on Lite, $7.49 on Pro.
Cancel anytime. Billed by Apple through the App Store.
Questions
Before you join.
What is Bondary?
Bondary is an AI dating coach who's on your side. She tells you where things actually stand, so you know when to invest and when to walk away. It's an iPhone app: you tell her what's happening with the person you're seeing, she answers on the spot, keeps the whole record for each person, and every week turns it into a verdict on where things stand.
Is Bondary a dating app?
No. She doesn't match you with anyone. She's for the people you're already seeing, from the first date through whatever it becomes.
Will she tell me to leave him?
No. She shows you the pattern and the entries it came from, and when something is off she suggests one small thing to try. The decision stays yours.
Can I bring what I've already told ChatGPT?
Yes. During onboarding you can import conversations from ChatGPT, Claude, or Gemini. She turns them into profiles and a timeline, and you confirm before anything is saved.
Does she only work for women dating men?
Her default voice is he/him, and you can set each person's pronouns to she/her or they/them.
Who can read my entries?
Only you. Entries are locked to your account, never used to train AI, never sold, and you can export or delete everything from Settings.
Is there an Android version?
Bondary is on iPhone today. If you'd like to hear when that changes, leave your email at the bottom of the page.
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